I am going to add a series of How to's to help anyone find their way in the website, if you are having problems with one specific part of the website let me know and I will add a tutorial.
When you log in to the right you will see who is online, this is your friends and only the friends you have added on the paisley.org.uk website.
You can go invisible anytime by clicking go invisible (unfortunately this does not mean your invisible in real life)
Any chats you have with friends are PRIVATE
You can access and create a chatroom "see video" which anyone can see and these are PUBLIC please make sure you dont divulge any sensitive or private information.
You may log in to the website and notice that under who's online there is no one, well thats because you have no friends "literally" and you need to add them by either clickin on their names in posts they have made or by going to paisley social and searching for friends by their name or username.
Once a friend accepts you, they will appear in your list as will you on theirs.
Check your Messages "link on the right" often for new friend requests.